Monthly Archives: May 2011

I Accomplished My Impossible This Holiday!

I Accomplished My Impossible This Holiday! Divorcee’s…I wrote this in my business blog, but it applies to you too.  You MUST take a break from the mental strain of the divorce business.  After all, you want to make good decisions … Continue reading

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Pity + Self-Pity, A Sure Disaster

Pity + Self-Pity, A Sure Disaster Pity…..the worst four letter word in language.  Self-pity…..the worst double set of four letter words EVER. Self-Pity/Pity is like wallowing in quicksand; the more and longer you struggle in it the deeper you sink. … Continue reading

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Divorce is a Serious Business.

Divorce is a Serious Business. To avoid insanity during the divorce process, you just have to keep some sense of humor.  It’s essential, like breathing. Divorce Humor “Mr. Smith, I have reviewed this case very carefully,” the divorce court judge … Continue reading

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Be > Do > Have

Be > Do > Have Quite often we look at a goal and think in this order:  If I Do the necessarity activies, I will Have the things that I want, and Be the person whom I want to be. … Continue reading

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Mindset..a Key to Divorce Recovery

Mindset.    When I became a Realtor® in 2002 after fourteen years with American Airlines (guess why I was laid off in 2001?) I was fifty years old.  There are not many options open to you when restarting your life after … Continue reading

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A Funny Step I Used to Start Recovering

A Funny Step I Used to Start Recovering  When my children’s mother moved out with the kids, it was a small house but suddenly felt HUGE.  And depressing.  And a million other things.  I HAD to do something to start … Continue reading

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My Dream Mom and Dad

My Dream Mom and Dad                                                          They would let each other see their children as much and as often as they can. It would be great if Mom & Dad just got along—not even as friends would be OK. They … Continue reading

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Thinking about the Kids

Thinking about the Kids  The Children.  The Kids.  The Rugrats.  The Heathens.  The Darlings.  Call them whatever you like, but once you make the decision to split, THEY should be at the forefront of your minds.  ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS.  I … Continue reading

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Change Course IMMEDIATELY!

Change Course IMMEDIATELY!  This is NOT about positive thinking, it is about positive DOING.  Personally, I’ve seen many many people who think positively and very few of those people who ACT positively.  I want people to go deeper than that.  … Continue reading

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Your Pension/Retirement Plan

Your Pension/Retirement Plan  Yes, generally, most states consider them as part of the marital property.  Check with your attorney because some states also include the portion earned before you were married.

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