Monthly Archives: April 2011

Focus on Misery, You Become More Miserable

Focus on Misery, You Become More Miserable. I read somewhere that what you focus on becomes reality.  I started thinking about this and watching myself and guess what……it’s TRUE!  Our human ability to control our lives is much more powerful … Continue reading

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Financial Records You Need to Have Copies of For Your Divorce

  Bank Statements   Tax Returns–National & State   Applications for Loans   Investment Statements   Credit Card Statements   Auto Loans   Insurance—Home and Autos   Health Insurance   Stock Statements of value   Retirement plans   Dental Insurance … Continue reading

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Insecurity–the KILLER of Relationships.

Insecurity–the KILLER of Relationships. And, exactly the reason why we should not get into (or back into) a relationship until we have resolved this issue.  After my 2nd divorce in 1988, I sat down and started analyzing my past–looking for … Continue reading

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My Toughest Job is Not Taking Advantage of My Wife

After many, many years (20) of forced ‘singleness, I decided that I had now made myself worthy of being with someone again.  And I did. My wife of 2 years is a school teacher.  Kind; caring; loving; giving.  Best of all, … Continue reading

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A Couple of Tips When Ending a Relationship

A Couple of Tips When Ending a Relationship Defriend/DeTwitter/DeLinkedin/DeMySpace/DeFacebook.  Like it or not, you must start separating your ties to one another and this is as good a place to start as any.   Defriend yourself from anyone who is … Continue reading

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A Funny Step I Used to Start Recovering.

A Funny Step I Used to Start Recovering. When my children’s mother moved out with the kids, it was a small house but suddenly felt HUGE.  And depressing.  And a million other things.  I HAD to do something to start … Continue reading

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Four Reasons to Use the Services of a Realtor

Four Reasons to Use the Services of a Realtor Many people think are of the opinion that selling a home is as easy as putting a For Sale Sign in the front yard and placing an ad in the paper.  Here … Continue reading

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Things to do BEFORE You Try to Sell Your Home

Items to Take Care of BEFORE You Sell. Here are some things to do before putting the home on the market that will pre-empt buyer questions and make the home sell faster. If you know some big-ticket items may need … Continue reading

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Collaborative Divorce After 50.

NEWTOWN, PA, January 08, 2011 /24-7PressRelease/ — Five excellent cases in favor of divorcing collaboratively after the age of 50: Privacy, Control, Decisions Don’t Come From Emotion, Less Emotional Trauma to Children, Cost Effective. 1. Privacy – Most people don’t … Continue reading

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Why Use Collaborative Divorce?

Why Use Collaborative Divorce? First of all, what is Collaborative Divorce?  It is a process where you and your collaborative attorney (from both sides) meet with a panel generally consisting of mental health teams made up of divorce coaches, mediators, … Continue reading

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